When they are the purpose of your life, comforts are no longer as soothing.
Certain things cannot be made up for, let some voids be.
Run after it, and happiness will evade you.
Learn to love selflessly, but don't forget to love the self, ever.
Leave love to happenstance, not your life.
Let your relationships support you, and not dictate you.
Remember, you are the centre of your world, don't let that change.